I need some advice

I’m so emotional today. I haven’t been able to spend quality time with my bf in weeks. Let me explain. Me and my girlfriend both work from home now so I haven’t been able to get away for long to see my side nigga. Today was supposed to be the day we actually got to spend the day together. My girlfriend had a hair appointment and after that she was going to spend the rest of the day with her mom so I finally had a chance to go spend time with my man and finally get some dick for the first time in weeks ugh. So last night i got a Brazilian wax to get ready for him in the morning. I stayed getting ready after my girlfriend left. I took her shopping the day before cause I wanted to wear what I bough her for my man today. I put on these cute yoga pants and shirt, ones of her thongs, make up, threw my hair in a bun, tucked my penis back and headed to his house. I was calling him all morning with no answer. When I got there his car was gone and no one was home. So I thought. When I was about to pull off. I seen his ex girlfriend walking out the house. We have a open relationship for now. Until I get my surgery we agreed that I’d stay with my gf and he can do his thing as long as he don’t keep secrets. He knew today was the only day in weeks we could actually chill together. I was so hurt I instantly started crying. We was just talking about making it official and moving in together as soon as I got booked in for my feminization surgeries two day before then he does this bull shit. I waited till she pulled off then went to the door. He answered wearing only sweats. I asked him why he was all sweaty and shit and he told me he was working out. I kissed him on the cheek and dropped to my knees. No not to suck his dick but to see if I could smell pussy on him. He must of seen me coming so he cleaned it up cause it smelled like baby wipes or something smh. I confronted him about his ex and we started to argue. He has a child with her so I didn’t want to make it a big deal. We ended up rolling a joint and getting high.